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People are strange
the way that they define things like love for instance. If you think about it
love is something that’s not really a tangible thing, I mean you cant really smell it, touch it, or hear it but
you can feel it. Is sex the expression of love or is a gentle kiss an
expression or are they both or neither of them, is it little wonder that we get
confused about love or by love.

Many far more educated and intelligent people have pondered
the question about love I am no different. If you can be in love what does that
really mean that you feel love for someone or are we all in different states of
love. What would you say to someone you really liked that you feel in love with
him or her or you love them?. If you really think about it there are so many
different types of love they are all different and they all mean different
things.

If you made the statement that you love ice-cream that would
be different to the type of love you have for a brother or sister. Is it just a
matter of the English language not having more than one word for love I know
that in other languages there are many types of love, Eros and agape for instance are 2 different
types of love and two different words.

It would be a very different place if we could express our
love properly for different things. I would really like to be able to tell some
of my male friends that I love them without getting a funny look or a punch in
the mouth. Love isn’t really well defined it’s all very much a subjective
feeling we use to describe what we are feeling in reality our love could
actually be something completely different like lust or admiration or even
companionship.

I really think that we need to think about how we use the
word love .in reality I have been in love many times before I didn’t stop
loving the people I have “fallen” in love, just that love has changed in some
way. This doesn’t me that because I don’t feel in love with them I don’t love
them it’s just different. As I stated earlier we just don’t have a word that
lets people know what level of love I have for them.

I think we should try and be open to love all the time. We
can enjoy the love we feel for others and can and should express it as much as
possible and where appropriate that could be expressing our love in a physical
way. The pleasure that we give when we are in love cannot be underestimated and
we should always be open to allowing our partners the same right. We only get
what we give back so if you have an aura of love around you surely you will
receive love back again over and over again so go out there and spread love
around you will be surprised at what you get back visit The Love Shop for all you Love information.