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I often wonder to myself about Love and why
we as animals believe that we are the only species on earth to experience love.
If animals of other species can feel fear and also jealousy why not love. What
makes us believe that we are the only animals on earth to be able to have such
complex emotions .I think its because we can stand the thought that we are not
exclusive when it comes to experiencing such powerful emotions.

As people we express love in so many
different ways. We aren’t all capable or inclined to buy roses, paint pictures
or write poems to our loved ones. Some individuals choose to express their love
in different ways, like making their loved one a drink in the morning or
ensuring that the garbage is always put out. Most people seem to do little
things to express love and often when this is done it is often taken for
granted.

Men
in particular seem to rise to the occasion when there is a crisis. They express
themselves in different ways. Not all of us are romantics so making sure that
the air conditioner is working can in fact be an act of love.

Love itself has so many definitions from
the practical to the romantic its not easily defined. Our language is often a
barrier to the expression of love just like the way that we express our love
can be misunderstood. Women often crave the emotional and communicative type of
love where they want to have someone who will listen to them and adore them and
whisper sweet nothings into their ears. As I stated earlier love can be
practical or emotional it’s not a tangible material thing it’s an emotion and a
feeling.

I love Ice cream, I also love my brother
and I am in love with my partner what’s the difference? . I love to walk around
the house naked as well, they are all different but all defined as love. As we
get more settled within our relationships they change and evolve and our
feelings of love for that person may change. When it comes to

Ice
cream on the other hand my feelings don’t change I love it maybe I just want a
different flavour that week

So many relationships break up because I
think people confuse what it is to be in love. All they do is confuse a
relationship and all that entails with the feelings they have for ice cream.
They choose to change flavour and that’s such a pity because there is so much
more to love than just wanting chocolate ripple instead of butterscotch because
you will eventually go back to chocolate ripple again and it would be such a
shame if you wanted to go back to what you really love and it was no longer
there.

I love
the fact we are such complex creatures but when it comes to love it has been
the downfall of many an empire and the building of some great relationships.
Enjoy love and enjoy the fact that we can love freely and openly wether its ice
cream or your best friend love is such a strong feeling enjoy it whenever you
get the opportunity.

C S Liner is a staff writer for Find Love
Australia a website dedicated to helping people find information and Ideas
on how to improve your love life visit http://www.findlove.com.au
.

People are strange
the way that they define things like love for instance. If you think about it
love is something that’s not really a tangible thing, I mean you cant really smell it, touch it, or hear it but
you can feel it. Is sex the expression of love or is a gentle kiss an
expression or are they both or neither of them, is it little wonder that we get
confused about love or by love.

Many far more educated and intelligent people have pondered
the question about love I am no different. If you can be in love what does that
really mean that you feel love for someone or are we all in different states of
love. What would you say to someone you really liked that you feel in love with
him or her or you love them?. If you really think about it there are so many
different types of love they are all different and they all mean different
things.

If you made the statement that you love ice-cream that would
be different to the type of love you have for a brother or sister. Is it just a
matter of the English language not having more than one word for love I know
that in other languages there are many types of love, Eros and agape for instance are 2 different
types of love and two different words.

It would be a very different place if we could express our
love properly for different things. I would really like to be able to tell some
of my male friends that I love them without getting a funny look or a punch in
the mouth. Love isn’t really well defined it’s all very much a subjective
feeling we use to describe what we are feeling in reality our love could
actually be something completely different like lust or admiration or even
companionship.

I really think that we need to think about how we use the
word love .in reality I have been in love many times before I didn’t stop
loving the people I have “fallen” in love, just that love has changed in some
way. This doesn’t me that because I don’t feel in love with them I don’t love
them it’s just different. As I stated earlier we just don’t have a word that
lets people know what level of love I have for them.

I think we should try and be open to love all the time. We
can enjoy the love we feel for others and can and should express it as much as
possible and where appropriate that could be expressing our love in a physical
way. The pleasure that we give when we are in love cannot be underestimated and
we should always be open to allowing our partners the same right. We only get
what we give back so if you have an aura of love around you surely you will
receive love back again over and over again so go out there and spread love
around you will be surprised at what you get back visit The Love Shop for all you Love information.